Sex: Gad Fruits

In our enlightened times, few people know that medieval knights chose their brides on the basis of their "fruit preferences" - exhibited in front of the beautiful maidens dishes with a variety of fruit, and then carefully observed what devoured the fruits of their possible darling.



Today this exotic tradition has faded into oblivion.

However, as it turned out, in vain: American psychologist Ellen Kenny, having studied the fruit tastes of modern women, but also developed a typology of their characters.

1. If it goes to the apples, then this girl is firm, just as adorable and her fetus.
She does not like romance, is alien to any experiments (including in bed), but reliable and thoroughly.

2. A woman who had a weakness for pears, seductive, very erotic, like a juicy pulp, and oval shape of the mature fruit.

It is usually cast a spell of his cavalier irresistible charm, she wants to be coddled and treated her like a precious toy or even more precious vessel.

However, it is often touchy and long keeps tracks of resentment in his loving heart.
3. Lover of bananas produced a strong impression on men (largely due to the fact that consciously or unconsciously, they often "suspect" propensity for oral sex), but they have an inordinate sensitivity to any criticism, because under the "rind" of the fruit lies soft, sensitive and vulnerable person.

That's why fans of "rough sex" is unlikely to fit like the fairer sex.
4. The motto of the women who prefer grapes - "I want to pleasure!" He brings joy to feel how they burst in your mouth tender fruits of these "figs.

They are often easily ready to share his bed with another, the loneliness of their frightening, and at such moments they seek solace in drink from so beloved of their grapes.

5. To a lesser extent, are drawn to pleasure and women - a fan of strawberries. They usually have a weakness not only for comfort, but also to show off, have a certain charm that attracted to him many admirers.

6. But the women - fans of oranges as mysterious as closed in itself. The man is very difficult to penetrate into their souls. They are usually modest and carefully protect themselves not only from the brash fans, but on the whole external world thick skinned.

If someone you are lucky, and he can still reach the "core" those who like oranges, they may discover that in essence it is often intelligent, capable of a good joke and, in general, it beats a creative streak.

Such women are usually not immediately disclosed, in intimate relationships, but they are mostly interested in precisely this increasingly opening its novelty.

Flirting Technique

To a man like your forms should be 90-60-90 - all this slander! You just need your charming smile and a few hints in the technique flirta.Osnovnoe what to look out for: eye contact, smile, naturalness, attention and a couple of tricks, which can be read below.


1. Eye contact

Keep eye contact to the person with whom you are flirting for at least seven seconds, and then smile and turn away. Then, mysteriously, look at him and turn away. Repeat this simple action about two times for 10 minutes. And now you do not worry. Your object is already aware that you are flirting with him, and eye contact will only emphasize the interest in his person.
2. Smile!
Perhaps the smile is a very powerful tool in engineering flirtation. Psychologists and experts agree that a smile - one of the most important things that make you really attractive.

A smile is a sign that you are happy to be here and see the people around you. Smile - a sign of friendship around the world.
3. Be yourself!

Do not try to pretend to be who you are. The object of your desire will soon feel the falsehood and hypocrisy. Also, if your relationship will develop successfully, you have to wear this mask, always!
4. Keep his mind

If you already have a conversation, use our recommendations to keep the attention of your interlocutor. First, smile and support the visual contact with the interlocutor. Listen carefully what he says. What could be more pleased that you listens so carefully and so caught up in conversation!

The fact that you are careful listeners to show, for example, nodding his head. There are very important factors such as a smile and laughter, this is - the fastest and easiest way to get close to man. Another effective technique is flirting - a light touch: hand or shoulder to the elbow.
5. Gentle slope

One of the most important moments in the technology of flirtation - the location of the head. Slight nod in the direction of the head looks very attractive! And what about the mysterious looking over her shoulder? This asymmetry will focus showing a large bend your neck and you'll still maintain visual contact. Because of the shoulder look will look sexy! Show your elected that he is worthy of your sight, even if fleeting.
6. Preen their feathers

We look sexually attractive when we strokes our hair or clothes, corrects its makeup. Try brushing your feathers with a smile.

His promise "to" and your disappointment "after"

This problem is as eternal as the world. In the beginning (or should we only think?), Love is like a rainbow of many colors - so bright and unusually everything that happens with the two lovers. What unimaginable variety of views, smiles, gestures, movements! Burn, like fire or a cooling like ice.

Touches are hidden moderate desires and languor, you are tense, as a string, and responds to the lightest, barely perceptible movement. I like honey pouring into the ears of those banal (or not) and the eternal words - I love you, I'll give you this star. And the enthusiasm of the first months of proximity, joint plans for the future, a kaleidoscope of emotions. It attracts and nullifies all the petty everyday problems. He gave me this star! <

There is a belief that in six months, love, passion - alas - is held. Is this true? It is hard to imagine that love (which, as you know, do not watch the clock), just six months to the day, hour to hour, suddenly realize - everything! Passed! Of course - no. Love, as a synonym of dazzling passes really quickly and emerges a deeper and stronger chuvs (or not born) - love. And the same one presented to the star can be obtained only from the hands of a loved one.

Promised, lust. This star is in the life of every woman. We are waiting for her since childhood - reading the tales of beautiful princesses and no less handsome prince on white horses. We are waiting, looking at the perfect gentleman with the screen "Love Story". We are waiting, each time looking into the eyes of men - do you? Are waiting. And sometimes we get. But more often, more often it happens that the very bright, very airy, inimitable sense of novelty, freedom, intoxication passes. I come everyday.

"I'll give you this star ...", say the well-known cartoon characters. The lady delivered under pressure, falling into the arms of the lucky winner and ... notorious cleaning pots! On Mondays, get up for work, washing, caring for children. And with all this, wants to remain the woman who gave a star. It was for that?

But man, is already convinced that his woman will not go anywhere, do not want any more rainbows. He was comfortable. He is calm, satiated. It is no longer interested in the long battle, because there is a legal spouse and the marital debt. What battle?

It would be unfair to accuse without proof of all men, they say, Behold, unfeeling bastards, not romantic and so on. There are others. But now it is not about them. And do not about men. And women.

The sexual nature of women is different. Man is able to inflame the type of open-work stockings, a woman is in the form of a naked man's legs are unlikely to experience at least a fleeting feeling of ecstasy. A rare woman, standing at the sink with a pile of dishes, is able to assess the advances of her husband, as though affectionate and gentle he was. It is annoying. And nothing but the desire to give a cloth over his face, does not arise. It is unlikely that will be assessed the same steps on Monday morning, or after a sleepless night with the baby in the evening after work, when you need to cook dinner (and want to unwind on the couch and relax). Can enumerate indefinitely. It is easier to give examples.

First example.

Katya and Sasha met 7 years ago. Everything was romantic and beautiful. Dating, flowers, romance. Beautiful wedding. Lucky Kate in a white dress.

They wanted a child. Waited two years before everything happened, and has been born of their firstborn. And just a year and a half and a daughter. Katya much better, went to work in an endless decree. At home she was alone, but with young children is difficult. Sasha did not help. He had his passions - football with friends on weekends, interesting work, but at night he wanted to rest and he asked Katya to calm children. Kate was silent. Although it was unpleasant and hard to hear it from a loved one. And a shame that her work (and because domestic work and child care - work without days off and holidays) do not appreciate, do not help.

And as it went on there their evening for two - Sasha irritated at the cries of children, and Kate tried to reassure them, Katya has forgotten the last time the two of them went to visit, went to the restaurant, when Sasha gave her flowers just so, and not duty yellow line on the eighth of March and a bouquet on his birthday. And making love? First Sasha demanded attention. But Katya, tired during the day, would not have anything. It may be, and would like to, but just to talk, hug.

And after a while Sasha began talking about what he healthy young man, he wanted sex. Why he refuses Katya?

And how to explain to him? The truth is always very difficult. While it is true and obvious - she is tired. She feels unwanted and abandoned. And he does not notice and do not want to see. And the question arises. And what become of the bright clear feeling that was seven years ago? Why is their love has become a routine? And there's the old thrill.
Only pans. No more stars.



Second example.

Yulia and Yura.
He believed that the food is bad warm up, so Julia was preparing him three times a day. Then he decided to become a vegetarian and Julia stopped eating meat, so as not to irritate. He said - throw it work, although Julia has long dreamed of becoming an interpreter, she studied for a long time, looking for a good place. But Yura decided - it's time to have a baby. Birth. Julia brought up mainly because Jura worked hard. But on weekends he tried to help.

But Julia was not happy. At home she was bored. Her irritated imperiousness husband. And increasingly she avoided intimacy with him. He was angry. Then he moved away and tried to arrange a romantic evening in front of sex - shooting at a restaurant table, buying expensive gifts. But the feeling naigrannosti, pressure, unnatural relations depressed. What had become of spontaneity? Is prepared to have sex as a performance? But Julia was silent. Eventually she realized that it's easier. Simply not to say anything and clenching his teeth to endure her husband's affection, then get up, take a shower and sleep in separate beds. And somewhere, deep in their hearts to save a naive faith in the very star ...

The list of examples could continue. But finding one. Women feel powerless and helpless victims. They are silent where it is necessary to speak. After a number is not someone else, but loved people. And they turn in on themselves, rather than sit at the negotiating table. Discuss what, how and why. And you can not bring the issue to the extreme, when one Turp (this is terrible in itself an insult to love, which brings together a man and woman), while the other pretends not to notice or not notice because of spiritual blindness?

Now is not the Middle Ages and women are not powerless puppets. It should look at the problem is not marred by all the unnecessary Dostoevskianism not immersing themselves and the world in utter darkness of despair. Never give up! - Said the frog in its beak a stork and began choking him.

Of course, no need to strangle anyone. Just always have to remember that love and relationships, intimacy, trust, do not appear by themselves. True love is not blind. And love is different from the very fact that love does not notice the flaws, and love them all know and accept. Reluctance proximity - wake-up call. This is a signal - it is time to understand itself, and, most importantly, talk with loved ones. Do not be shy. In this situation, it is criminal.

Different women, different problems. But try to look at everything from the outside. You want to love and be loved, you want romance in a relationship you want to be noticed, gave flowers, give time, take care. Imagine that and men (oh, horror!) Want the same. Care, attention, love and, of course, intimacy. Without it is impossible. Did you many years or you are enrolled in the party antiseksualo (such party is also available), or have decided to spend my life in a monastery. And if it could not be, then we have to think how to fix what you have destroyed their own hands.

Ask yourself the question - what would happen if I lose it? And you will lose it, if you refuse to love. There exists a lot of women who are happy to "share the bed with your husband. The next question you must ask yourself - why are you silent?

For fear of offending? This is an unjustified fear, because it's much more painful will be your husband, when he realizes that you are pretending. Or are you afraid that you will not understand? And you try, men too are endowed with intelligence and soul. After all, most poets were men. Do not forget it.

Assemble and start negotiations. Tell us about all their problems and feelings about everything, what you think. If you think that it is rude in bed - say so. Do not hide anything. To avoid embarrassment, think about children whose parents are often abused and say they are not the most pleasant thing for a child to know what is good and what is bad. And do not do so in order to hurt the child, but because they love it. It is with this need to start razgovo

Believe me, men are not animals, and do not lack emotions. If you're honest, the answer will be frank with you. And it is quite likely that you will discover each other anew. Perhaps you did not know that your man dissatisfied with the work, because it takes away his time that he would like to dedicate to you? But the work because they do not want to deprive you. And on the small, but important for every woman forgets the signs of attention because in a hurry to come home early? And he wants you, not because all men are rough males, and in general understand nothing in a thin woman's soul, but because you still have likes and finds attractive. Maybe is too often, but it was great!

Teach him to love you, tell him about his desires. Reminds him of himself, ask for a gift "something". Perhaps there is not enough spontaneity and romanticism, but do not think only about themselves, about their troubles and problems. He has them too. And remember, true love gives all, without demanding anything in return.